We want more from ourselves. I mash the remote to watch someone make chocolate cake with chocolate chunks, chocolate frosting, and chocolate candles. I’m on the couch and reach for the Peanut M&Ms on the coffee table. I drop the remote. Argh. I lean over and pick it up and set it on the armrest. Thankfully, I didn’t have to drop the raised footrest. I refocus on the food connoisseur, who is taking the time to choose chocolate either from Ecuador or Côte d'Ivoire. I admire